Tell us about a time when you were left on your own, to fend for yourself in an overwhelming situation — on the job, at home, at school. What was the outcome?
I believe learning by doing is the only way to grow—it teaches skills that are never forgotten. Initially the situation may appear overwhelming particularly if it is based on dealing with a sudden crisis, however by using St Francis of Assisi’s quote I have found a way through many tough times.
The whole idea of sink or swim to me bring to mind pictures of young children being forced into the water by their parents as an act of love. The parents need to make sure they learn to get back to the side of the pool and save their life, if they fall into a swimming pool without an adult watching to rescue them. Initially, there is a lot of screaming and protesting. Then as the young child listens to the instructions, they are rewarded by the freedom of moving unaided in the water. They can swim and they are so proud. Nobody remembers the fear—they remember the success.
A very good analogy.
That’s true one has to sink or swim and you quoted a great example.
If one drowns and had to come back the effect would have been different.
Shiva
Drowning not the preferred option.
Very helpful advice to deal with a crisis, this will help avoid being paralysed by the problem. Thank you for your post.
I REMEMBER THE FEAR… the lessons never took!
Its nearly a pre-requiste living in Australia as there is so much water around and the weather is hot.
I love the quote and great post. Thank you for the follow. I am following you as well.
Looking forward to our journey together.
Love the last line, “Nobody remembers the fear—they remember the success.” So true. I hope you don’t mind if I borrow that quote (citing you of course). Great and insightful article. Thank you so much for stopping by the Cow Pasture. I’m glad you liked it. Welcome to the Cow Pasture Fence Jumpers.
Glad you liked it. I would be honoured o have you quote me. I am looking forward to our journey.
Thank you so much! Likewise.