Gratitude is infectious. Give thanks at every opportunity. The more you do it, the more you will find to be grateful for. Start small. With practice, you will begin to realise that the things you feel negative about can be redefined. You choose the way you look at every situation. For example, instead of focusing on how stressful your work is and all the things it doesn’t have—choose to make a list of all the things about your job that you are grateful for. Some examples may be:
I have a job
It pays me regularly—providing money for housing, food, bills and my current lifestyle
I have friends at work I can talk to
My job has taught me
- how to use a computer and computer programs
- time management
- conflict resolution skills
- customer service
- organisational skills
- presentation skills
- personal resilience
- complaints management
- stress management
- documentation
- Occupational Health & Safety legislation
- boundaries
- people skills
It gives me a reason to get out of bed in the morning
Provides me with annual leave, sick leave, long service leave and superannuation
Take up Oprah’s challenge. Make a decision today to start focusing on all that you are grateful for in your life. Gratitude is a feeling and focusing on it will lift your mood, allowing you to see more things to be grateful for in your life. As you become more grateful for things in and around your life, you will begin to be able to see things to be grateful for in negative situations, even tragedies.
I like the subject very much. Although gratitude seems to be ‘hot’ at this moment, I feel it does make sense. And thank you for reminding me again. I’ve kept gratitude journals on and off. I usually do it for a few weeks and then forget and stop writing in it. The good thing about keeping a gratitude journal is that you become aware of all the positive things around you. Because you want to write something in your journal, you start to look for things to be grateful for during the day. indeed, it is infectious! Thank you for pointing it out once more!
I agree. The more you do it the more automatic it becomes. It can change your outcomes quickly, which I like on difficult days.